verm's answer (13)

this is like. a revamp of straight ppl wanna be oppressed so bad   1 reply

god the answers,, is this 2013 tumblr is it trendy to hate kids just for being kids again oooo edgelord alert lmao   reply

which crime is worse the biphobia or the terrible comedic setup   reply

shounen means boy. shoujo means girl. ai means love. idk where u heard this but its exactly the same as saying bl or gl. i mean what else cld they possibly call it   1 reply

i feel like i have to specify the environment for this to make sense ;-; i will occasionally go on one of those sites where men basically pay to interact w women. i told a grown man i was bi and he goes "so a little whore?" trying to be flirty??? it didnt offend me much since its not like someone close to me saying smth,, just kinda made me sad,, a......   reply

got excited bc i thot ppl wld be dropping sauce then op had to say all that. but also yea reading > watching it just feels awkward when its animated the maybe its the physics idk   1 reply

this depends on the person but to me it depends on How you consume gay porn. if u only watch gay porn,, like ever,,, that sus,,, but as a wlw, i do not mind if a straight guy gets off w lesbian porn so long as he doesnt associate the porn or his feelings towards it with wlw in real life if that makes sense? and if i meet a man who occasionally does......   reply

i dont get why people are disagreeing,, nowhere in this does op claim every cis woman who reads bl is fetishizing. these are all legit points. there is no other reason to think a cis women wld consume mostly bl but hate yuri than this. instead of getting defensive for being called out, accept the criticism, think about why you do these things, and ......   3 reply

not ppl in these answers pretending they read it for the plot,, bestie its ok just say u have a size kink   reply

people who romanticize ks or like,, love the characters (not in the admiration sense of them being pretty good characters yk what i mean) missed the whole point!! yoonbum's defense is the way he appears innocent and sangwoo's is being charming and attractive! thats their whole cover that prevents everyone else from seeing how terrible they are! you......   1 reply

around 11 or 12 i was exploring sexual content on my own, so i think that regard varies for everyone. i never really consumed romance at all during my prime pining years of my early teens, but it if i had discovered bl then i'm sure i would've. i would always project and compare myself with the female lead and bl is a good break from that. i would ......   reply

this is normal and a lot of people experience internalized homophobia and transphobia! honestly all i can offer is: don't feel like you have to label yourself. forcing yourself to identify as something you grew up learning was wrong is hard. i'm still trying to figure out if i'm attracted to men or just clinging to the idea because of my own strugg......   reply