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Trust me....It's not motivation, it's ADDICTION.... I have no right to say this, since I don't follow my own advice, but don't spend your money... It's just an endless cycle...   reply

And if guys look at you outside, will he ask you to stay inside? What's next? If you like doing it, then you should keep doing it. If you want to make it public, you should do it, and honestly he should have NO SAY in it. If he has a problem with you posting on social media, then that's his problem and he needs to work on that. You are NOT doing ......   reply

STOP with this "study well" nonsense you guys are commenting!!!! I promise you when you're 30/40/50/60 you're going to regret it if all you did was study well, unless what you love most in life is studying - then go ahead... The older you get, the more time is taken up by work and responsibilities, and that's not a bad thing, but it means you're ......   2 reply

"Ugly MC trope" Wearing glasses apparently makes everyone around you incapable of seeing your face, deeming you absolutely hideous!!! OH and bangs! How dare you? You are the ugliest person alive...! If you want to write stories about average or ugly characters, do it! I'll read it!...But let's not pretend a 10/10 is ugly because they wear glasses......   3 reply

Easy... Buy lube that look like semen (yes that exist) and go have fun... This doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a kink, though it could have... And breeding kink (to my understanding) doesn't equal wanting to have kids necessarily... Don't have kids unless you're thinking about raising them, not just about the pregnancy and the sex........   reply

I feel like kids are here because nobody talks to them! Nobody explains anything to them and nobody's open to listen and direct them to the right places. And because everyone's treating it like it doesn't exist, they don't have anyone to talk to, if they're confused, or if they end up on sites, they're not supposed to be on.... The adults are the......   reply

Wanting to be androgynous, feminine or masculine doesn't necessarily have anything to do with gender. You can have all those feelings but still want to be a woman - that's perfectly normal. The only advise I can give is, when the icky feelings come, try and think about whether it's only about looks (the way you present yourself) or if there's a de......   reply

As an old person, do it! Now is the time to make different choices, try different things and even fail... If you change it and it doesn't work out, what's the worst that can happen? you "waste" a couple years! That's nothing! Literally doesn't mean anything. Nothing... If you don't change it, you risk thinking about it for the rest of your life......   reply

They really shouldn't! They are pretty important in the ecosystem since they eat a ton of insects we don't want like flies, mosquitos etc. and feed other animals that we do want.... When I think about just how many flies we'd have without spiders, I'm fine with spiders tbh...   1 reply

I'm going to start of sounding a little harsh but please bear with me.... You don't want to do anything to get better. You don't want to talk about it or do ANY work at all. You just want to it to fix itself, because you believe everything will be fine then... Which is why even though "people always say go see a therapist" you have decided that wo......   reply

I can literally picture you typing this out.... hearing your little brain going "oh I'm gonna type this.... and then THIS.... uh OH OH and then this..." How much time did you spent thinking about what to write to get the best reactions? cringe   reply

"I want to live." YOU wrote that! You may say you want to end it all, but you don't! You want to live. What you really want is for the pain to stop, but unfortunately the only thing that will stop the pain is time. Shit hurts and some shit hurts more, than you can even imagine, but all you can do is give it time! It's going to be really rough for......   reply

Terms such as ROMANCE, psychological, slice of life, action etc. are what specifies the genre.... so you could argue that KS isn't ROMANCE but not that it isn't BL or Yaoi.... BL and Yaoi are just terms used to indicate that it's material about two male characters so that people will know... that's it! Just like MM or MLM is used for books about ......   2 reply

For me, I don't think, it's about whether I would want to stay friends with them or not, I couldn't.... I would definitely have a talk with them about it, but if we're so far apart in our values or thoughts that, I find them morally wrong, I couldn't stay friends with them.... How am I supposed to trust them or even just have fun with them if, I kn......   reply

33 - I had to do it even though I'm old....tbh the questions were pretty vanilla, apart from a few....nothing weird about most of the things on there....so nobody should feel un-pure... ;)   reply

Why are you wasting your time thinking about a made up person, who may or may not, somewhere in the future, come up to you and name their pronouns... are you that bored? Seriously who cares... If you don't want to respect other people, just stay by yourself... It's not that complicated or hard... People with "other" pronouns live rent-free in your......   1 reply

Maybe this wont help you at all... but when I came out as bi to my mom, I did it completely randomly in a conversation we had about life in general. I was a grownup, but since I hadn't ever dated a woman (I'm a cis woman myself) I hadn't felt the need to say it. I knew she wouldn't mind since, I grew up surrounded by gay family friends, and she di......   reply

Everybody should do that! Literally everybody! There's nothing wrong with asking to protect yourself from things that can potentially make you infertile, give you cancer or HIV. Some linger in the body for years and years and you'd never know without a test. Using protection (condoms) is something you should do but you're not a 100% protected wit......   reply

You seem confused A bar is the epicentre of loud people. Loud people literally come together in bars. Even people who aren't loud end up being loud in bars. That's totally normal. Not liking loud people is fine, but expecting no loud people in a bar is odd. And being outraged by loud people in a bar ("it was a bar ffs!") is even weirder. And YES ......   1 reply

NOBODY should have any say in what anyone does with their body! Because if you have the right to decide that a person cannot get an abortion then that person should also have right to decide that you SHOULD HAVE ONE! That's how it works! Otherwise people don't have EQUAL HUMAN RIGHTS I don't know WHY it is soo hard for some people to understand ......   1 reply