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Trust me....It's not motivation, it's ADDICTION.... I have no right to say this, since I don't follow my own advice, but don't spend your money... It's just an endless cycle...   reply

As an adult, giving advice on sexual themes to a minor comes with too many risks, so most adult wouldn't do it even if there was nothing but good intentions behind it. If I somehow found myself in a situation where, I was the only adult that this underage person trusted to ask, the most I would do, would be to first try to direct them to other adu......   reply

And if guys look at you outside, will he ask you to stay inside? What's next? If you like doing it, then you should keep doing it. If you want to make it public, you should do it, and honestly he should have NO SAY in it. If he has a problem with you posting on social media, then that's his problem and he needs to work on that. You are NOT doing ......   reply

STOP with this "study well" nonsense you guys are commenting!!!! I promise you when you're 30/40/50/60 you're going to regret it if all you did was study well, unless what you love most in life is studying - then go ahead... The older you get, the more time is taken up by work and responsibilities, and that's not a bad thing, but it means you're ......   2 reply

"Ugly MC trope" Wearing glasses apparently makes everyone around you incapable of seeing your face, deeming you absolutely hideous!!! OH and bangs! How dare you? You are the ugliest person alive...! If you want to write stories about average or ugly characters, do it! I'll read it!...But let's not pretend a 10/10 is ugly because they wear glasses......   3 reply

As someone older, I think it's really important that money isn't the only thing you want. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make money, there's nothing wrong if you want to be filthy rich, but if that is the only thing you choose a career path on, you're going to risk ending up utterly miserable. I've had high paying jobs that I liked, and hig......   reply

Easy... Buy lube that look like semen (yes that exist) and go have fun... This doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a kink, though it could have... And breeding kink (to my understanding) doesn't equal wanting to have kids necessarily... Don't have kids unless you're thinking about raising them, not just about the pregnancy and the sex........   reply

I feel like kids are here because nobody talks to them! Nobody explains anything to them and nobody's open to listen and direct them to the right places. And because everyone's treating it like it doesn't exist, they don't have anyone to talk to, if they're confused, or if they end up on sites, they're not supposed to be on.... The adults are the......   reply

Wanting to be androgynous, feminine or masculine doesn't necessarily have anything to do with gender. You can have all those feelings but still want to be a woman - that's perfectly normal. The only advise I can give is, when the icky feelings come, try and think about whether it's only about looks (the way you present yourself) or if there's a de......   reply

As an old person, do it! Now is the time to make different choices, try different things and even fail... If you change it and it doesn't work out, what's the worst that can happen? you "waste" a couple years! That's nothing! Literally doesn't mean anything. Nothing... If you don't change it, you risk thinking about it for the rest of your life......   reply

They really shouldn't! They are pretty important in the ecosystem since they eat a ton of insects we don't want like flies, mosquitos etc. and feed other animals that we do want.... When I think about just how many flies we'd have without spiders, I'm fine with spiders tbh...   1 reply

I'm going to start of sounding a little harsh but please bear with me.... You don't want to do anything to get better. You don't want to talk about it or do ANY work at all. You just want to it to fix itself, because you believe everything will be fine then... Which is why even though "people always say go see a therapist" you have decided that wo......   reply

Why are you wasting your time thinking about a made up person, who may or may not, somewhere in the future, come up to you and name their pronouns... are you that bored? Seriously who cares... If you don't want to respect other people, just stay by yourself... It's not that complicated or hard... People with "other" pronouns live rent-free in your......   1 reply

I can literally picture you typing this out.... hearing your little brain going "oh I'm gonna type this.... and then THIS.... uh OH OH and then this..." How much time did you spent thinking about what to write to get the best reactions? cringe   reply

"I want to live." YOU wrote that! You may say you want to end it all, but you don't! You want to live. What you really want is for the pain to stop, but unfortunately the only thing that will stop the pain is time. Shit hurts and some shit hurts more, than you can even imagine, but all you can do is give it time! It's going to be really rough for......   reply

Terms such as ROMANCE, psychological, slice of life, action etc. are what specifies the genre.... so you could argue that KS isn't ROMANCE but not that it isn't BL or Yaoi.... BL and Yaoi are just terms used to indicate that it's material about two male characters so that people will know... that's it! Just like MM or MLM is used for books about ......   2 reply

For me, I don't think, it's about whether I would want to stay friends with them or not, I couldn't.... I would definitely have a talk with them about it, but if we're so far apart in our values or thoughts that, I find them morally wrong, I couldn't stay friends with them.... How am I supposed to trust them or even just have fun with them if, I kn......   reply

Though this question isn't aimed at me specifically, I felt, I had to just write that it isn't weird at all if someone does so. I feel like a lot of people misuse the word FETISH without even knowing what it is, and there's a huge difference between fetishizing something or someone and simply finding something attractive or sexy or whatever it is.......   1 reply

33 - I had to do it even though I'm old....tbh the questions were pretty vanilla, apart from a few....nothing weird about most of the things on there....so nobody should feel un-pure... ;)   reply

Predators blend in when minors have no adults to mirror! No adults to guide them! No adults to give advice! No adults to ask questions or for help! Predators cannot easily blend in when minors have adults around them to show them how a good normal adult is. I would very much advice any minor to be weary of all adults, especially online, but wha......   2 reply