Sanghoe's question (2)

So I have this dude, he's the greatest sex bud that I had in my whole life. I think falling in love is inevitable when it comes to relationships like that, but the thing is I think he can see me as pure sex toy only. I'm contemplating wether to dump him or keep going. Sounds dumb right? What should I say to stop the relationship?

Why the heck did no one tell me that it was harder to forget someone you've met briefly than a literal person that's been in your life for 3 years?

I wasn't like this with my ex! Is it because I was ghosted? I didn't have a closure?