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I don't know if it's unpopular or not but: I hate when the bottom gives consent to having sex, and there's this brief moment of oh thank god, there won't be any rape, and then the top responds something like, "Good... cos I wouldn't stop even if you asked me to" or SOMETHING to that affect. I get so frustrated like we were SO CLOSE why'd you have t......   4 reply

Cheating. Nothing I hate more than a story focused on a couple... and then suddenly one of them cheats. It's like, really? I wasted all this time caring about this story/couple when the characters themselves didn't even care? It cheapens the whole thing. Also desperate characters who allow themselves to be degraded/used/mocked/manipulated cos the......   reply

i lost 15 lbs. my anxiety has skyrocketed these past few months and i can barely eat and when i do eat, sometimes i'll throw up. it's actually making me really sick lol   reply

Please don't apologize for sharing this, you're not being dramatic. You deserve better than you've been treated and it's amazing that you're willing to share this with others, even if its online and anonymous. You are already taking steps to take care of yourself, rather than bury the feelings, and that's very admirable. If it's in any way possib......   reply

I did a looot of drugs growing up and most of my friends know about my ~past~ but what pretty much no one knows is that on Halloween one year my friend and I were wondering around downtown and walking along the docks and these two guys from Montenegro, chilling on their yacht, started talking to us and invited us onto their boat. So we went on and ......   2 reply

Lesbian! Where my other les girlies at?!   3 reply

Love is real, love is the point of being alive, it is an enduring and relentless force, but perfect fairytale romance love isn't even remotely real. Romantic love is it's own genre. It functions differently than other types. And it's complex. I believe people fall in love but, to be perfectly honest: cheating, abuse, lying, selfishness, simply fall......   reply

It sounds like depression. Sometimes it's hard to tell if you're depressed cos it looks different for everyone. The idea in our heads of what depression looks like (no energy, crying all the time, dark mood, doing nothing all day, etc) is true for a lot of people, but it's not the only form of depression. Sometimes it's being out of touch with yo......   2 reply

9 and 10 but also the one who disappears for months at a time and then shows up acting like nothing happened like haha what's up guys :-)   reply

Cos of trauma from childhood sexual abuse and body dysmorphia. And that's so humiliating and dark to admit to other people so I make up other excuses but really I just can't handle being touched sexually! And I know no one will want to date me if there's no sex, so I don't even bother. I've only dated three people in my life and all three reacted i......   reply