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You know, I use to feel the same way. I didn't want to date or be in a relationship because I was not satisfied with where I was in life. I felt like I couldn't bring anything to anyones life until I was as successful as I wanted to be. It took me realizing that alot of people feel the same ( actually my friends told me lol ). I think you should te......   reply

I accepted that feeling as a sense of loss now that this thing I was enjoying is done/over. That sense of emptyness feels to me like a sudden loss of excitement, happiness, or enjoyment. It helps when I think of it as a loss instead of emptyness for some reason. I think its because I think back on why I enjoyed it in that moment and somehow think t......   reply