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Therapy helps a lot. My sister got out of a 10 years depression with therapy. People against therapy usually say "you could just talk to your friends" but that's not true, therapists have tools that can help you process and heal. Of course, it's possible to not go to therapy and manage, but that's what my dad did with his trauma, and it's impacting......   reply

In so many BL, the uke being the "wife". No, no, no. He's also your husband. Him being penetrated does not make him a woman. It's both sexist and homophobic, and usually linked with the uke having a girly hobby / stopping his career and staying home or whatever. Also, I read wayyy too many stupid webtoons were the husband was an asshole to his wi......   reply

Sociology :D This site is absolutly fascinating is so many ways, you could definitely do a sociological study on it   1 reply

Did he literally say that like this "madonna era with 1 italian baby and 3 token minority kids" ? because that sounds racist and horrid. On the other hand, why are you being transphobic and homophobic? Girl, Google is free, get a life and learn about lgbtquia+ people instead of saying awful things on here. I can understand you want to complain abou......   reply

Are you talking about polyamory or polygamy? I'm super fine with polyamory, I know people for whom it works really great. Usually, they're dating max two people at the same time, or else it's impossible to have any kind of deep relationships. I don't think it's for me, as I'm not sure I can fall in love with more than one person, but I find it fasc......   reply

Basara, I was not ready for this story, and it was such a masterpiece. I want to attach myself to the characters slowly again, and cry like crazy at the tragedy. It's so, so, so great. https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/basara/   reply

I wanna die before I'm 30 was nice ! https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_wanna_die_before_i_m_30/ You can follow the "3P" tag, but it's dangerous, because a lot of them sucks. Good luck on your quest :3   1 reply

I'm from Belgium, small and super complicated country XD Nice to meet you!   reply

Honestly that sounds super tiring and awful, being fake to everyone. In Europe, I feel like the norm is that if you're bragging about everything, people will say that you're arrogant and won't like you. Of course, it really depends your degree of proximity, but I really don't feel that everyone is trying to show they're superior. Of course, peopel ......   reply

Honestly, I don't know what to say. I also have friendship that I keep because the person would have no friends without me. And while it's dishonest of me (I feel like these are pity friendships), I think it would be much worse for them to be alone, so I just try to be a bit more farther away, but I'm still their friend. If Anna had a lot of friend......   reply

Hey! I'm interested in joining, would you add me? Howlite#5884   reply

Hey! Sure, why not. I'm not connected that often, but anyway: Howlite#5884   1 reply

Find a job, I need money. Also to explore fun stuff, and decide in which country I want to live (Why do so many people seem to know so much about what they want in life? I want certitudes too, I don't even know where I want to live, ffs)   reply

I've always been single, so now my anxiety spikes everytime I have the possibility to be in a relationship, and I run away. But I have super high standards as well, and I get all the love I need from my social network, so I don't especially desire being in a relationship. Besides, I suck at falling in love. I'm used to being single and happy. My bi......   reply

Overall life: probably 7, lots of not nice stuff in teenage years, definite need of therapy, but amazing relationships and tons of privilege Looks: depends on the day, probably 6? I think I'm okay-ish And happiness: definitely depends on the day as well, I'll go with 8 right now(▰˘◡˘▰)   reply

I'm a 22 yo female, soon 23. I come from Belgium, I'm Caucasian, I'm trying to find what I want to study and working in a supermarket until the end of june. I'm mostly straight, and I've never been in a relationship. I got into yaoi thanks to my sis, and I like it cause you find something different in there compared to shoujo. It's easier to find g......   reply

Hello! I struggle right now a lot, but my sis wants to become a nun, and so we keep having debats, because every time I have questions, I ask her. The big idea is that God gave humanity freedom of act, so if He just stopped anything bad from happening, it would mean we don't have free will. Personally, I have a kinda wavering faith in God, that ch......   reply

I've been living in another country for my master, and while I'm struggling with my thesis, I'm torn between leaving or staying. I think I'll leave because I have too many friends in my home country, but I fell in love with this new country, and I'm scared of making the wrong decision. But I'm also loved, having fun, and enjoying life. I mostly wis......   reply