grassj's answer (6)

aight, so essentially, yaoi fetishizes gay men, to put it simply. It's primarily created for and by straight women. Yaoi perpetuates lots of stereotypes, and also pushes a heteronormative agenda. Small, feminine men are the bottoms, while big, strong men are the tops. It can be extremely harmful, since some people are so deluded by yaoi that they......   7 reply

Aight so essentially, yes, it fetishizes gay relationships and presents them in unhealthy ways, and more often then not it's made for straight women. I, personally believe a little fetishization is okay, since sexual freedom is important. However, outside of using it for that kind of thing, or just for your general entertainment, do NOT under ANY C......   reply

THIS REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF MY REALLY BAD ANIME YAOI PHASE HOLY SHITTTTTTT Back then I woulda called myself a deredere cause I was blissfully ignorant, but now I'm prolly more of a kuudere and tsundere cause I'm depressed and have trust issues. Yeah so that was fun nice question   reply

So, essentially, I use exclusively tampons. Mainly since they last longer and are generally more comfortable for me. I started out essentially with the same problem, I was too much of a pussy (ha get it) To put it on. One thing you can do is use lube. Which is what I did, and it worked just fine. Don't feel pressured to have sex. Fun fact, lube ......   reply

Haha wow, the comments here are absolutely disgusting. Gay men are not for your consumption and just cause you now have a dingaling doesn't mean that gay dudes are going to be all over you. If you are one of the people who wrote "I'd be gay and fuck a dude to live out my yaoi fantasy!" Then you're just generally gross....The fetishization of gay me......   2 reply

INTP T cause im big brain jk haha im fucking braindead   reply