PetitFae's answer page 1 (23)

Stay respectful, hmm. I really wonder why you felt the need to post this now. Right now the world is going through a serious pandemic. In the United States, LGBTQ+ people no longer have access to health care. LGBTQ+ refugees who face persecution in their home countries are no longer able to come into the United States for sanctuary. People have bee......   16 reply

Trans men are not a kink. They are human beings deserving of dignity and respect. They are not objects for you to fantasize over. Cis people, stop referring to trans and nonbinary people by their genitalia. Please have some fucking respect for us. Cuntboy is a derogatory term. It is not JUST used for fiction purposes. It's used to degrade actual tr......   7 reply

There isn't a day that passes without cis nonsense. *Breathes in* This is what I'm talking about when I say cis women are fetishizing gay men. This right here! Gay trans men already deal with enough shit from cis gay men. You have cis women fantasizing about becoming a gay man to have "gay sex". A lot of cis gay men make it unequivocally clear that......   1 reply

As a queer person and rape victim, it really doesn't surprise me how often rape shows up in yaoi. I've been reading it for years now and it still disgusts me. People like to justify their fetishes by distancing themselves from it. It's "fiction". I see a lot of so-called psychologists in the comment section. I'm in university for psychology as well......   10 reply

I fucking graduated with honours and I can't understand what this is trying to say. I can make a guess using what little context clues are here, but I doubt that I will get at the actual meaning of it. You, the OP are bi and have a preference for girls. Okay? What in the world does that have to do with your reading habits? Are you trying to say tha......   1 reply

I think, yaoi, generally speaking, is the last thing anyone should read if they are trying to understand gay men. Straight women know nothing about what it means to be a gay man. However, their work always gets attention. I have seen countless novels as well written by women about gay men and rarely if ever seen the same attention towards gay men t......   2 reply

I have a controversial answer. Here's the thing about sexual orientations--you don't get to decide what is valid and what is not valid. Other people's orientations are not up for debate. My sexual orientation is not going to be a topic of discussion because there is nothing to discuss. You made an error with your second question. First of all, if y......   1 reply

I am an asexual and demi-panromantic agender (genderless) person. It took me a while to realize that I am asexual because I confused romantic and aesthetic attraction with sexual attraction. It takes me a while to trust others enough to feel romantic attraction. So I consider that to be demi-panromantic. I generally like the word queer because then......   reply

Let's start from the very beginning A very good place to start *ahem* When I was thirteen, a therapist was at my house. I really don't remember why and what was going on at the time. All I remember is being asked by that therapist, "Do you like boys, girls, or both?" It took me maybe a minute or so before I said, "Both." So, you see I was never "i......   reply

If you mean sex then yes. I was in an on and off relationship for almost four years and I had an active sex life. However, you never asked if it was good or not. Most of the time it was boring. There were a handful of times that it was okay and only one time that it actually felt really good. My ex seemed to prioritize what made him feel good over ......   1 reply

CW: graphic details of masturbation, bodily anatomy, bodily functions . . . How is this disgusting? It's part of being human. I'm nonbinary but I'm also AFAB so I feel qualified to answer this. Personally I don't masturbate like "normal people. This goes back to when I was a little kid. I would rub my thighs together which would put pressure on my ......   reply

CW: rape There are a lot of points that you are making that I agree with. None of what I am about to say is coming from a place of malice. I am a transmasculine person and I resonate with having dysphoria around giving birth and pregnancy in general. It's not for me. I try my best to distance myself from being that subject of discussions around c......   2 reply

CW: Brief mentions of 9/11, gender dysphoria, depression, undiagnosed autism, corporal punishment (aka physical abuse), domestic violence, imaging standing at the edge of a building (this was an example of my proto-intrusive thoughts that lead to intrusive thoughts regarding suicide...I don't mention this here, but my proto-intrusive thoughts did i......   reply

Omegaverse can be enjoyable when it's not toxic as hell. There are omegaverse manga that don't have rape, abusive alpha, promote toxic masculinity, etc. There are a lot of great omegaverse manga/manhwa out there. HEAR ME OUT ON THIS!!! Cisheterosexual women, I want you to pay attention, especially if you all go "e......   reply

It is different from person to person. I started developing really early (ex. I needed to wear bras in the first grade). I felt so uncomfortable with what my body was doing. However, I didn't even think of this when I came out to myself at the age of sixteen or so. I first thought I was a trans-male because I didn't know anything about nonbinary ge......   reply

Before I say anything, I want to make this clear. People are going to do whatever they are going to do no matter how much we hate it. People always feel entitled to do things, even when they have no place to do it. There's always going to be cishet women and men portraying gay people in objectifying ways and even when it is done respectfully, it is......   reply

I would wish to have completed my physical transition (top and bottom surgery). That would really help with my dysphoria, boost my mental health and allow me to focus on other things like advancing my education and find work.   reply

CW: gender-related dysphoria, depression, bodily anatomy, some explicit mentioning of sex in relationship to bottom dysphoria, suicidal ideations, a brief mention of rape . . . I want to get my breasts off my chest because of severe top dysphoria that has been plaguing my life for a little of ten years now and, before that, mild dysphoria that goes......   reply

I take breaks from this site. There are days I completely forget this place exists. It works out for me because I have a ton of notifications when I get back. Do what I do and stop giving a fuck. People are going to be clowns online. Every clown needs an audience and the more that you humour them, the more people want to start their own nonsense. T......   reply

My sexual/romantic orientation discovery went like this: bi → pan → queer → ace → asexual demi-panromantic → queer (encompassing my gender, sexual and romantic orientations) I don't really have one definite preference between the prefix bi- or pan-. You could interpret bi as a sexual attraction to the same gender and to different genders......   reply