confess....
i love to confess if im reaaallly sure abt my feelings. but, the only reason im confessing is bcs i want to be acknowledged by them, and im not really interested being in relationship with my crush. i feel weird and its feels tooo goood tooo be trueeeee. but all the guy i have confessed turn me down before i could even said 'im not interested?????'
um how do i explain this,, i just want to be a normal friends to them and to be treated the same as everyone.. and when my crush started to act weird around me, im losing interest lol.... bcs i made it super obv that i like them, bcs i want to be friend with youuuuuuuuuuuuuu.....
and then when they turned me down i said 'lol, calm down. just want to be friend with ya, k. dont feeel weird being with me, treat me like norm ppl' and then we become friends. and then, the topic that i confessed to them its super fine. i guess i havent meet the one that i want to be with i guess.
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I just saw this and I have to say, I understand what you feel. I confessed to my crush back in 2019 but I only confessed to get the heavy feeling off my chest. I gave him a letter containing my feelings and made sure that I said in the letter that I just wanted to confess and wasn't expecting them to like me back. The day after that, I avoided him to lessen the stress but he looked for me and told me that he appreciated the letter and that i shouldnt worry because we're still going to remain as friends. and we did. were still friends two years later which is really nice.
anyways, like in my story, maybe you should try confessing through a letter? list down how you feel to that person but also make sure that they understand that youre just telling them what you feel and isnt expecting for them to like you back. i cant guarantee that it'll work out the same way it did to me but you'll never know till you try!
wow that is a really great opinion !! thanks for the advice !! (´• ω •`) ♡
oh, you're amazing. I could never do that, even if my feelings are slightly obvious I never confessed (and never will be). It's just that, I wish I have courage to tell my feelings just like you...
well i dont really like to hide and its not like i expect something will happen so hehe..
i hope one day you will have the courage to confess to someone !!