A single shy girl

No boyfriend for 19 yrs in my life. It just sucks. Well, there were some people who'd be interested in me, but I just push them away. Truth is I am a typical asian girl and I am not good at expressing myself, therefore I am 'a shy girl'. I am junior in an university this year and I really want to have a boyfriend because I see that as an opportunity to open myself to males. When I see someone who is attractive and they talk to me, I lose my ability to talk and acts the opposite way I want. I dont think of it as a very critical problem, but still I really want to change. Any advice? Haha (￣ε(#￣)Σ

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pyraxis 11 07,2020

I'm single as well by choice lol I have a lot of guy friends and they would often tell me to be who I am and show how passionate I am in my hobby (which is art) and people would come through. They often tell me that being who you are... whether you're an awkward person or a sociable person some people find it cute! And I frickin believe them with t...... reply

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Romanceisdead69 11 07,2020

When you as a person are whole, happy and showing people that you are happy being you (even with shyness) - that will attract the right person. I recommend this lady to EVERYONE because she is very helpful. YouTube Marisa Peer and learn confidence building techniques - do not waste your time getting hung up on "wanting" and thinking "I'll be hap...... reply

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Basil 11 07,2020

This is coming from a fellow 19 y/o I don't think it's a good idea to see getting a boyfriend as an opportunity to "open yourself up to males" (I'm assuming make more male friends/talk to more guys). I feel like it would be better to start talking with guys first, opening up, then use that as an opportunity to find someone. That's what I did and I ...... reply

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axima 11 07,2020

I'd imagine going out in to more social situations that you know involve guys would be the best way to get used to them. Then you'll hopefully get close to one and fall in love naturally. Don't depend on him to make the first move though, some boys are shy too! Take that advice with a grain of salt though as the only boyfriends I plan on having ar...... reply

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Latinaaaa 11 07,2020

I feel like you should calm down and be you! Or if you think their cute tell them to at least get a little bit off your chest. Go slow and see from there where it goes. Don’t go telling them you like them the first time you see them so you won’t probably get rejected and also ask people who are dating people and have a lot of experience for adv...... reply

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