is it normal? (cw)

is it normal to get punched by your older brother so that you can used to it?

ik it probably is. stupid question. i just want validity at this point cause my perspectives are fucked up and i think everything is just normal now. my fam usully laughs at me when i tell them things that happens to me and that includes losing friends and getting sexually harassed by a stranger, laughing as if im such a joke for overreacting. so really, now idrk what's wrong or right. i dont want to ask anyone close to me. i just need a yes or no so i can be at ease. validity whore and all (づ￣ ³￣)づ

i'm a girl btw, and he does it a lot everytime he's drunk.

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ʚɞ 07 08,2020

OH HELL NAH throw the whole damn family away.. dont excuse their actions just because you share the same blood. toxic families aint it and i hope youre doing okay. 1 reply

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2DoA 07 08,2020

BRUV THROW YOUR OLDER BROTHER IN RICE AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY IN DAT ♡f l a m e s♡ reply

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AsamiKun 04 07,2020

It's so NOT NORMAL. Are you adopted? Cuz the way they treat you is not what a family should be. Stay away from your brother when he's drunk. reply

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Jello 07 08,2020

No, its not normal getting punched by your brother or being laughed at serious situations. Your getting sexually harassed and your fam just laughs at you???? No. If this ever gets worst you have to ask for help. 1 reply

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Kal 07 08,2020

Physical abuse and mental trauma are real. Your family is fucked if they laugh at your experiences (that you obviously don't enjoy). Even if that's normal where you're at, that doesn't mean it's okay. Please stray away from them and gradually cut yourself off. That's not being a validity whore, that's called being concerned for your well being. Don...... reply

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Local simp 05 07,2020

No! That isn't normal at all! From what I'm guessing, your family doesn't seem to care that your brother is hitting you at all! If you keep letting him hit you, he'll think that it'll be ok to hit others. Also, you got sexual assaulted and your family didn't care at all and laughed it off? They didn't even call the police or something? I'm sorry,...... 1 reply

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Lanea 08 09,2020

no offense but your whole family a bunch of bitches and i hope they all collectively stub their pinky toe on a knife 2 reply

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MacDennis 07 08,2020

My older brother hits me too and it’s been happening for such a long time that it’s become normal(?) I tell my mum to tell him to stop and she’s says stop and that’s it. Like no deep conversation about how violence is bad or hitting your sibling is bad or hitting some literally 10 times smaller than you is bad. And like I have some w...... reply

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