repressed childhoods
Ever did/buy something as an adult that you've always wanted to have/do as a kid? How did it feel when you finally did it?
When I was younger, I couldn't buy stuff I needed/wanted because we were poor and very conservative. My dad tho had a bad spending habit and was an impulse buyer. I wasn't allowed to travel, I had a strict curfew and no male friends allowed
When he left us I kinda had freedom to move around. I realized, "hey I actually have money saved up and I've always wanted this", so I bought a new phone (after 5 years), a bts album, skincare products and even a whole frappe just for myself. And no one was to tell me "No". I went to museums almost every week, and my best friend right now is the nicest guy ever. I've never been happier
Thank you so much for sharing, I'm very happy for you, too!! I hope you can continue living on your own terms from now on.
Congratulate yourself and be VERY VERY proud of how you're managing your freedom and finances. My childhood was lacking a lot of stuff too and the main thing I did for a while when I found independence was binge drinking.
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28 06,2020
Hmm technically I not a “ kid” but then again I’m not an “adult”. So my answer is I’m happy 4 u .freedom sounds nice. ┗( T﹏T )┛
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28 06,2020