something you hate that people say to you
what's something/question/sentence or a remark that you don't like/hate or get upset about that people say to you ? or something that you don't want people to say to you ?.
for me when I was younger my sister kept saying : you really smell awful
then she said : you really stink like an expired chocolate ...
then she admitted that I'm quitte clean like always take a shower and I'm more tidier than her
but then up until now she is still saying that I have a weird a smell (even my hair) and she isn't the only one who keeps saying that like my mom, my aunt and even my brother
so since then I'm always cautious and conscious about myself I don't even get close or near people
in college I know many people and I have some friends but we just know ourself from afar and thats all
apparently my body reacts to deodorant/ perfume/ soap and gets rapidly immunized against so no matter how much I use them it won't work or at least I need to change them each 3 days before my body gets used to it
"Are you really crying?" or "it's not that serious" That's pisses me off so much because I cry when I'm mad or frustrated and I feel like they just brush me off with those comments
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"Are you really crying?" or "it's not that serious" That's pisses me off so much because I cry when I'm mad or frustrated and I feel like they just brush me off with those comments
27 06,2020
"Eat more" or "You will never survive as an artist." I am naturally very thin, as I got it from my dad (he is a very skinny bean as well) and people always tell me to "eat more", It hurts me because I am trying to feel comfortable with my body (after having a really hard time accepting it bcuz. Of bullying etc.) I also had the problem, that when I told people that when I thought that I was fat (nothing bad at being fat, I was just swallowed by the korean beauty standard etc. A lot), they just brushed it off. "You are skinny, don't play it like you aren't." I was mentally damaged and seriously needed help, but everyone didn't take it serious as I was already skinny, but not in my depressed eyes. And to the artist thing: I want to draw comics like Old Xian and Tan jiu, that is my absolute dream and I hate it when people downplay it. They do not take me serious at all and always be like " go study or in training". My grandpa always buggs me with that but never did that to my older cousin, as she is a nurse im training and that is considered a 'actual job'. Makes me really sad and mad :/ oof, what a rant xd sorry>•<"
HONEY!!! You're feelings are valid and no one should tell you how to feel or brush you off for feeling a certain type of way. Also I believe you can do art as a career look at the world we're all advancing so you do you boo
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