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so, i isolated myself from a group of friends. they're really good people, and i don't exactly dislike them, but i feel like shit and start having second thoughts whenever i spend time with them. i feel like i'm ignored but i know that's not true because what i say in the groupchat doesn't make sense to them or they just don't know what to say; and i feel really crappy whenever that happens. i don't feel a connection anymore and i just kinda drifted away. what do i do? i really don't know anymore and it's making me confused and bedridden. i feel like i'm just being overdramatic but then again it's been going on for a while. i haven't talked to them in a few months now.

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Animez9 23 06,2020

Maybe be honest and tell them how you feel. Friends should be understanding and try their best to make sure that everyone is feeling included and cared about. See what they say/how they respond and that should help you decide if you feel like a friendship with them is worth working on or if you no longer feel that way. 1 reply

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AmberRose 23 06,2020

This happened to me and my best friend too. We started to drift apart when she made new friends, and it became awkward overtime as I tried to maintain my friendship with her when she had other people who I did not connect well with. Although our stories are different, the end result is the same: We are both drifting away from friends who we were cl...... 1 reply

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Moreee 23 06,2020

I can relate to your experience, tho i just thought to myself that those 'friends' are somehow not the right people for you 1 reply

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PeroKeroro 12 07,2020

Do you feel this when you are around them or just in your groupchat? You must understand that their are some substance in a persons attitude that is not reflected in most chatting application. Furthermore, chatting could never replace a physical conversation (at least for me). I have been there. I am a recent college graduate. I was the VP of a sc...... reply

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Lovetodudeswithlonghair 23 06,2020

I have can somewhat understand how your feeling. I have a bestfriend who I always hanged out with. Then when she made more friends who she has a better connection with I sort of felt left out. We tried hanging out but we just kept on drifting further away. I love hanging out with her but I never know what to say and it sort of becomes awkward. (I t...... 1 reply

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