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I have two questions.
So I'm a bisexual(?) with the most beautiful girlfriend I could ever dream of, we were childhood friends and started dating like fairlbut, recently we were having an interesting conversation and it just rubbed me the wrong way I guess?
So she's been fine with me being bi and even is fine with me calling other guy's attractive but, not girls, I never thought anything of it.
But just out of nowhere during a cuddle session I asked: "Babe, why are you fine with me commenting on attractive guys but, not girls?"
And basically she explained the reason why is because she feels like: "Boys aren't dating material for you, they're just eye candy, I don't need to compete with them. Every guy you've ever dated Liz (A girl, my ex friend/crush.) dated first, it's obvious you just did that because you liked her."
I didn't know how to respond but it rubbed me the wrong way and I kinda just laid there upset I even asked?
Was she being biphobic or am I tripping and she was just being honest?
It also made me wonder if I might just be a lesbian?
I feel like with guys, I can appreciate an attractive man but everyone like my girlfriend said: I've never dated a man because I liked them.
Yeah it’s biphobic to say that. Not acknowledging that half of your sexuality is actually valid. Not sure if your girlfriend meant it maliciously tho (biphobia is rampant unfortunately). It’s time for a convo about it
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both, she's lowk biphobic and ur prob lesbian
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Another question: Do you all think our relationship might be screwed/doomed?
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Yea that's biphobic lol she's trying to find a way to rationalize that you're simply a lesbian bc she clearly doesn't believe you can be bi
"The only reason why you have sex with this men is to get closer to the girl they dated" so using men as a mean to feel smth abt a girl bc "ain't no way you actually did it with them bc you're attractive to the......
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