Anyone doing a PhD in Europe?

Hiii, I was wondering how it has been your experience so far. On my side I have nothing but complains and I am seriously considering quitting, main reasons being 1) I am not being paid and none of my peers are -few exceptions being the ones getting a scholarship; and 2) I am doing it long distance which feels like a scam honestly (Spain/Italy). However, if I think about job opportunities (I have a background in humanities) it feels like it'd be hell to find something in line with what I studied, or even close to it...
Share your experiences with me, I am curious to know what it is like in other countries in Europe and other people's honest perspectives!