I'm sorry what do I do...I don't understand

so i'm a huge bl fan, i read yaoi mangas and i freaking love them but for some reason seeing homosexuals in reality just makes me feel homophobic....i wonder why like, the bl animations, manhwas I like the very much i squeal, or run or kick my pillow whenever there's a cute scene. But If saw something like that in rl i dont have the same feeling...Is something wrong with me(I think so)I'm not hating its just not the same feeling. I'm so concerned about myself...

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Hako 13 hours

Because you look at them as if they're fictional. You feel disgusted because they're not all 6ft hot buffed up men. You unconsciously have this standard for them and you want them to look like 10s and to peek into their lives just like in the manhwas you read. My recommendation is to not think about them deeply at all. Don't look at them as 'gay pe...... 1 reply

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Miyoko 13 hours

because there is a difference between fiction and reality and i hope you keep the two separated 2 reply

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Doujinshin 13 hours

youre an idiot then reply

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ledbath 13 hours

fiction & reality r not the same maybe lean off the bl for a bit because u have an actual problem 1 reply

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justpassingby 12 hours

What kind of fucked up fetishization level is this. 1 reply

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Your mom 13 hours

Yeah you're just straight up homophobic at this point 1 reply

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Kope 12 hours

You sound really young 2 reply

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Luciana 12 hours

Hey, thanks to everyone who replied (even the tough ones lol). I get now that I was mixing up fantasy and reality...BL is meant to be cute and dramatic, but real people aren't fictional characters, and I shouldn’t expect them to be. I’ve had time to reflect, and I understand where the discomfort was coming from. I’m working on unlearning that...... 3 reply

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ѕυιяєη★♪ 13 hours

i think that should be normal. i dont think seeing random queer people outside being lovely dovey should make you squeal or whatever. it's like straight couple, you see them and nothing else. just people in love with each other. while in bl manga, the people are in pretty/cute art style and you get to see them build up their love story 3 reply

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ELLIE 13 hours

Idealized attractive gay couples written by women for the female audience ≠ real life gay people. Separate your opinions. This is giving the same vibe of people hating the actors for playing villains in movies. reply

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