Here's my trauma dumping entree
how do I comfort my emotionally unstable, low iq, low eq no read no write father that lost his beloved wife.when we too lost my mom and I have to work several cities away a fresh grad just cause I have to. He's also alcoholic and bad with his money BUT I KNOW HE'S TRYING HIS BEST TO BE A GOOD FATHER it's just that when he has too much alcohol we have to take care of him too, to not cause trouble and such. I'm both mad and hurt fuck why does it has to be mom??? WHYYY FCK MY LIFE. I'm worried about my sister who's in her last year in uni, she's probably mad tired and she's the only one who's left with my father, my useless unemployed out of school brother is with his witch of a girlfriend WHO LITERALLY disrespected my mom in her funeral causing a scene drunk. And the asshole only comes home to get money from us like we owe him. Fvk
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If he has some level of humanity left then get him a dog or something?? Idk if that'd be much of a help a relative of mine lost his wife. Idk how to say it but he def lost his spark he went from a funny chatterbox uncle to a depressed uncle his daughters are already out of the house to pursue their dreams so they got him a dog last time I checked he got his spark back but definitely get rid of your brother if he's still keeping that girl.
We can't keep a dog in our apartment about my brother we pretty much cut ties with him he just had the audacity to come home and demand sht. He know we hate the girl. At this point we just let him be.
Idk the whole situation as much as u do but fuck it take ur sis and leave those deadweights and save urself before u drown with them