am i the asshole

I told my plus size "friend" her activism is making shopping exhausting?
Look, i’m a skinny and just wants to grab cute clothes and go but lately, every trip with her turns into a whole thing. she guilt trips me for shopping at stores she’s boycotting, calls me ‘part of the problem’ if i don’t wanna protest with her, and says i ‘don’t get it’ because i can fit into anything. i finally snapped and said ‘maybe if you spent less time yelling at stores and more time at the gym, you wouldn’t need to demand they change for you.’ now she’s crying and our friends are calling me a fatphobic monster.
AITA for being honest, or is she just mad because im right?

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Hungry 11 days

Well if you’re telling that to her in public then yes it was too much, if in private then it was better but still wasn’t okay. You see some fat people doesn’t want to be that fat and they’re aware of theirs appearance, she knows without you telling her. But demanding you were also wrong if she was a good friend she would be happy for you, ...... 1 reply

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