am i the asshole
I told my plus size "friend" her activism is making shopping exhausting?
Look, i’m a skinny and just wants to grab cute clothes and go but lately, every trip with her turns into a whole thing. she guilt trips me for shopping at stores she’s boycotting, calls me ‘part of the problem’ if i don’t wanna protest with her, and says i ‘don’t get it’ because i can fit into anything. i finally snapped and said ‘maybe if you spent less time yelling at stores and more time at the gym, you wouldn’t need to demand they change for you.’ now she’s crying and our friends are calling me a fatphobic monster.
AITA for being honest, or is she just mad because im right?
The reality is not all clothes stores can offer clothes for everyone. Every store has clothes that fit certain body types and expecting ALL stores to have clothes that fit you perfectly is ridiculous. I will say poking at her sore point was the wrong way to go. Best counter arguments use facts. If you wanted to argue against her protest give logic ......
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