Genuine questions for the wlw people/lesbians!!!

Did you lose female friends or your female friends started becoming distant when you came out to them?? Were they as comfortable with you as before? Is it normal to feel guilty that I'm somehow taking advantage of my female friends when they act physical (hug, touch or are comfortable in changing clothes in front of me) despite not having any sort of sexual thoughts about them? Or is this some form of internalized homophobia?