Did you lose female friends or your female friends started becoming distant when you came out to them?? Were they as comfortable with you as before? Is it normal to feel guilty that I'm somehow taking advantage of my female friends when they act physical (hug, touch or are comfortable in changing clothes in front of me) despite not having any sort of sexual thoughts about them? Or is this some form of internalized homophobia?
I came out to a friend once, since I knew it was safe around them to just say come out and they were really understanding and I feel like we both got closer after I came out to, so it really depends on the people you befriended/ hang out with. And for physical stuff I don't really like ppl touching me so I make that clear, and the last one I guess ...... reply
It depends ngl, I specifically chose to just have gay friends because I know they'll accept me. In fact Ive never seen a homophobic girl yet for the past few years because I chose the right people from the start. I know an lgbt when I see one and I immediately befriend them. So no I didn't need to come out with my home girls cuz Ik they fruity too,...... reply
Never had to come out lmao, my friends knew from the start. Oddly enough, they get closer to me(?). I remember one of my female friends being real touchy (she'd hold my hand, etc etc). reply
Uhhhh the only non queer friends I have have been my friends for over 20 years, nothing changed when I came out to them haha
I had a crush on a friend (different friend group) but even then I didn't feel bad for hugging her and being close to her because I never even thought about it? Like, I still loved her as a friend and did all of that as a fr...... reply
