my boyfriend the first ever person I've had sex with, takes care of me a lot. but it seems like I can never get him off. meaning he always has to pull out and jerk himself off for a couple mins to cum while I lay there catching my breath. he never says anything about it, but it makes me feel like I cant do more for him. I tried sucking him off but that was a fail.
I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Maybe you should try talking to him about it or something. As the other commenter said, death grip syndrome sounds like a good explanation. reply