what do i do?
i have this boy friend who i started a friendship since 2023 on college and we are talking till this day even after not seeing each other anymore, we actually talked more when we were seeing each other, now we just sent reels and talk about something from time to time, but is not full conversation just reels now, and in february he stopped talking with me for 4 days, he didn't say anything and came back like nothing happened, he didn't even bother explaining, i got hurt and did not answered him for 4 days too, but he didn't seem to care and we talked normally again, i thought we were good but he did it again he's 2 days without talking to me idk what to do.. i really like him, he's my only friend that i like to talk (I'm not his only friend and he talks to a lot pf girls) should i ask why he did it? if he talks to me again after some days should i answer him normally? idk what to do help
No don't ask him unless u want him to think ur a pushover. Just ignore it and talk normally but try to drop hints here n there if yk what I mean.
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No don't ask him unless u want him to think ur a pushover. Just ignore it and talk normally but try to drop hints here n there if yk what I mean.
5 days
okay i will try to drop some hints, thanks!!
why would he think she's a pushover for communicating and hopefully establishing her boundaries with texting?
I had a similar situation, they think ur a pushover for caring too much Abt 'small things' and that ur too easy
only cowards hide behind those label. i could understand in a dating context bc the signs are there tho. as long as she communicates only once
I'm just saying this Incase the same thing might happen to her but communication is worth a try too ig