Can u guys stop "testing" people who confess to u

Can u guys stop "testing" people who confess to u, when I say testing I mean (ohh he confessed to be but I want to see if he's loyal so I will be ignoring him and leaving him on read to test him hehe) and then when the guy stops talking to u u suddenly start ranting about how he's not loyal and how he played bitch be fr u brought upon urself if u like the guy stop putting him through all that suffer if u don't like him then fucking reject him instead of making a whole drama about him
(had to rant it)