Seeing your underwear
Man, I suck at formulating questions...please bear with me a minute!
We all know scenes in anime/manga like that: Protagonist-kun can see the underwear of Girl-san, in which context whatsoever.
Since I know there are a lot of girls on this platform (minority dude here!) I'm interested in two things:
1)Does it even bother you if something like that happens?
2)Would you like to be notified about it, like "madame, people can see more of you then you might like" (because we all talk like that, right?
For me this is of interest because I'm a writer (kind of?), but often struggle with realistic reactions of women, so I would like some input on that topic. I remember "back in the day", when I visited a girl for the first time (not dating). She was going through her drawer, looking for socks or something and pulled out a bra by accident. I immediately closed my eyes, since for me this was a big thing. But I wonder how girls/women think about it.
And just for clarification: No, I'm not interest in the underwear your wearing right now. No, I don't want to chat with you or something like that. Yes, I have a girlfriend, but she is so open-minded that she is next to useless for me in regard of this question...:(
As a woman, I don't feel comfortable with anyone seeing my underwear (if I'm wearing it). But I am ok with a woman seeing my underwear on the clothes line or in the laundry basket to be folded. However, I feel uncomfortable if a man sees it, even if my teenage male cousin comes for a visit and sees my laundry basket.
My bras, on the other hand, I......
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09 06,2020
Even if it's a man or woman even my family I feel really uncomfortable when someone sees my underwear even when I'm wearing a thin shirt and you can see through it that's why I always wear an undershirt so that my underwear won't be seen. And I really get embarrassed but not uncomfortable when someone points it out like if my friend points it out ......
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09 06,2020
1. I've been more flustered than bothered when someone walks in on me undressed. I might stutter and shout 'close the door' or 'I'm changing' but I wouldn't get mad at the person... unless if they have a habit of not knocking. Usually afterwards its just a little awkward and we laugh about it and apologies are exchanged.
2. I would like to be tol......
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09 06,2020
not sure if thisll help buut personally for me,,
idc if some1 (random) sees my bra strap tbh. i wear a bra,, yes i have tits is that a problem 4 u... however its a different story for my family ig? if im in front of any family member ill try to fix it yk yk. either way id like to be notified bc,, even as much as i dont rlly care i dont wanna be li......
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09 06,2020
when i was a kid i used to wear skirts but no pants. i was climbing this tree and this kid saw my underwear and pointed it out. internally, I was a bit embarrassed but my external response was "well at least it's doing it's thing"
in middle school, ppl also accidentally saw my undies under my below knee skirt. (i was trying to sit on the ground ......
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13 days
For me, it would be really embarrassing if someone saw my underwear. Or actually, it doesn't bother me too much if someone sees my bra, but my panty? That's not okay with me. And because of that, I don't really wear short skirts, or when I do, I wear a short under it.
And as for would I like to be notified if "people can see more of me than I woul......
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03 07,2020
Thanks a bunch to all people answering this
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17 06,2020
18F, I wouldn't be embarrassed, I had really bad self image issues and an ED during my teen years, I did lose a bit of weight due to working out, but I'm super comfortable with and love my body, of course I don't go around nude (besides from when I'm in my own home) because I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but even though I'm not embarras......
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17 06,2020
If this is a case of like accidental undie flashing or a bra strap falling down then yeah let her know, but there are cases where underwear is shown as part of the wardrobe like some women have their bras popping out of tops, intentionally have straps or g-strings showing, etc. If the underwear showing isn't intentional though, yeah, we wanna know.......
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03 07,2020
