Is this still okay or is it SA at this point?

I had a bf. He was hypersexual so it means he went through r*pe. Our relationship was well and i didn't mind doing it with him at first even when it was for his comfort but eventually. I hated it but I agreed and told him "I dont mind" but each and every second of it. I felt disgusted. I felt like i was forcing him and it made me very uncomfortable. I couldnt afford to tell him about this, he would feel disgusted or even worse try to off himself over it cause i mean, he was a victim. I couldn't deny everytime he asked for it because i felt like i had to accept to "comfort" him.

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yoi s2 when 8 days

This can't really be considered as SA since you technically still consent, due to the feeling that you have to comfort him. When this happens, tell him you're not in the mood or shit like that. Or, better, communicate with him about it (the fact that you don't like to have sex with him due to feelings etc etc). (Please fix your commas/periods, an...... reply

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Haru 8 days

First off, your feelings are valid. There is nothing wrong with how you felt about this situation. That being said, I need more info. Did you ever tell him you weren't feeling it? Did you say no? If so, did he react by saying he would off himself? Did he sulk or try to make you feel bad for saying no? If you let him know you were not okay and h...... reply

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Angelina 8 days

First of all u meant have or just "had"? Bcz if so all u need to do is communicate with him if had..then yall already broke up and he didnt off himself and all u can do is tell him and yall jst move on in life no need to get back together since its prob for the best coz both u guys gonna be feeling guilty. reply

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Spiritual-Yogurt 8 days

I think its better to ask this on reddit a lot people who has experience or knowledge with it can give proper advice. You can always make a dump account in there if you are scared. reply

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Bane 8 days

Hello, thank you for taking the time to be brave and speak up about what I am sure may be a difficult topic for you and from many societal and cultural standpoints people are expected to not ask or question such things. Sometimes being able to stand up and question our situations allows us and others to spot injustices that we would not otherwise b...... reply

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