Is this still okay or is it SA at this point?

I had a bf. He was hypersexual so it means he went through r*pe. Our relationship was well and i didn't mind doing it with him at first even when it was for his comfort but eventually. I hated it but I agreed and told him "I dont mind" but each and every second of it. I felt disgusted. I felt like i was forcing him and it made me very uncomfortable. I couldnt afford to tell him about this, he would feel disgusted or even worse try to off himself over it cause i mean, he was a victim. I couldn't deny everytime he asked for it because i felt like i had to accept to "comfort" him.

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Mioro 1 days

wait hold on, he told you he was a victim of rape and he was hypersexual? I'm just caught up on the "he was hypersexual so it means.." bc not every hypersexual person was SAd Anywaaayyyss abt your situation, if you never communicated how you felt to him then is not SA, you're valid for feeling disgusted, uncomfortable or like you were forcing you...... 1 reply

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kimchi 1 days

edit: OP, u should delete this question and seek help from somewhere else. people on here won't help u, they don't have the resources to either. this is NOT the right place to ask such a question. do not take advice from any of the answers, including mine, except that seek help from a better community that caters towards SA in the first place, and ...... 2 reply

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I wanna read 1 days

Dude, I feel like you have to consider many things first before u go around having a relationship, especially having sex with your partner. It's stupid to impulsively fuck based on just bc he's "hypersexual" or you wanna "comfort" him. GET A GRIP GIRL, don't be led on. 1st. If he was a rape victim and his hypersexuality was caused by it. That's re...... reply

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Jaxx 1 days

I'm confused by he was hypersexual so it means he went through rape . Best thing for you to do is communicate with your partner . 1 reply

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LeRain 1 days

Girl what? This doesn’t make a lot of sense, you also seem like a child. I hope this is a joke. 1 reply

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Lexue the jinx 1 days

Lets not focus on the grammar lmao but tbh OP it would be SA if you did say no but he begged and made you feel guilty, nonetheless your feelings are valid. You have the right to feel disgust and all that feelings and i suggest you talk about it with your partner or a therapist. While forums give you some answer but alot of people here are immature ...... reply

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Kiwwi 1 days

Its not SA cos hes not forcing u. U keep half-heartedly consenting to it out of pity for him n it is destroying u now and it will destroy him too in the future once the truth is out. U said it urself that u hated it and felt disgusted. So it's not ok on ur side. And u know it urself that if ur bf knew the truth he'd be guilty too (that is if he r...... reply

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SharkVice 1 days

I don't mean to sound like a grandma. But based on the level of immaturity your post/question gives, you shouldn't be having sex. I know that's not what you asked. But I would feel remiss if I didn't point that out. To be clear: the entirety of the issue you are describing (as well as how you are framing it) has to do with immaturity. To answer yo...... reply

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Nixon 1 days

I just wanna point this out real quick because it annoys me alot when I see people say certain things about ppl who are hypersexual. Some people have already pointed this out as well but not everybody who's hypersexual has been SA or r R-worded, Some consumed sexual media when we were far to young to fully understand it { like p*rn } some were gro...... reply

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Caca 1 days

I think the best thing u can do is leave him. He doesn’t make you feel good he actually makes you feel gross and upset with yourself and that’s not how a partner should make you feel. Don’t be worried about the offing himself bit I’ve heard of way to may stories like that and it’s just a manipulative tactic he won’t actually commit to i...... reply

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