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if it's a man? no. never. absolutely not. i'm the exception tho, fyi on a serious note tho, what purpose does it serve to dwell on such thoughts? such musings rarely offer clarity. if anything, they merely provide room for the past to linger, a quiet excuse to hold on to the shadows of a boy who no longer deserves a place in your present. if you m......   1 reply
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I have one former bully in my life, she's a pillar in my life and pretty empathetic now, I know now that she was lashing out from circumstances as a kid, but even then I have the space within myself to recognize the hurt that she caused, and their lasting effects, because I was a kid too. Honestly she's improved a whole lot with her anger issues.......   reply
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To me, it honestly doesn't matter if they've changed or not. The hurt you felt/they caused is there regardless. That pain doesn't change because they've become "a better person" The only 2 things that can possibly change that perspective is you dealing with that pain to better live with it (I don't want to say get over it or resolve it, because th......   reply
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i assume they got even shittier   reply
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answering as a ex-shitty person here lol ! compared to how I was as a teenager I’m a lot more secure in myself and the relationships around me. As a teen I was so insecure of myself I had a desire to just be seen almost and validation, kinda crazy stepping out of it as I got older and becoming more reserved led to more people approaching me but I......   reply
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I judge based off action. Aging doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve matured. Personally, if I were in that situation, I wouldn’t know that person except for how they treated me in the past. So, I wouldn’t give them a second thought or my forgiveness. If they are a better person, cool, whatever. Doesn’t have anything to do with me and I d......   reply
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As someone who has also met and thoroughly interacted with their highschool bullies just recently, i felt indifferent lol. Im the type of person who doesnt spend my energy on people who dont matter to me, whether they improved or not. If they did improve, good for them, if they didnt, im not their mothers who'll scold them to change their highschoo......   1 reply
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They will enjoy their teenage, bullying others and get away from it in adulthood, people even defend it saying "they were immature" at that time, so what? they can't undo what they have done to others, others suffered because of their "immaturity". At the end I think that humans can't just get away with what they have done, sure they mature over ti......   reply
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There were 18 year olds in my hs class who asked my chemistry teacher to make a pipe bomb, firepaper, etc etc in class, and was like, "Let's explode the school!!!" oh they also told someone in a class to, "ride a boat back to the UK" (though that person deserved it ngl) I think people mature... Also they managed to get my Chemistry to teach us loa......   2 reply
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It depends Everyone so different and each people can matured in their own way People are like trees sometimes When we grow our branches expand in different directions Their no possible way for you guess how a tree grows it branches nor it root Some have thin roots and strong branches or some have strong roots or weak branches. You don’t k......   reply
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