MY FAMILY IS GAY??
ok so, i am in a family of 5; 2 siblings and both parents. I was the first to come out along with my sister shortly after.
For my parents it's a bit complicated... They got married young(out of wedlock) and it's been about 17 years. Over the years my father has told me he lost interest in my mother and onky stays for his child(also feels pity toward my mother). The other day he told me he would rather be with a man than women but gay men are too dramatic(means this in the most respectful way possible).
Now my mother. From the pictures I've seen from high school she looks like a closed trans(the area I live is pretty closed minded about this stuff). Do I think she was denied that freedom but still has gay tendencies (for as long as I remember she has been making sex jokes about women and gay men ONLY)
My sister is older than me she came out as bi. I have a younger brother who is turning 9 and we had a conversation about girls and asking if he was girl could he wear make up and dresses( also does alot if hand gestures).
I just wanted to share this with anyone who has gone through something similar (??)
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all of my siblings are married and have kids.
Wow thats so cool, my entire family is homophobic. When I re-come out of the closet, I wont have a family anymore (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
I'm an here for you buddy ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Lowkey my parents because tell me why my father is a husk of man, no emotion whatsoever and my parents have been sleeping in separate rooms for as long as I can remember, my mother herself admitted to me that even though he says he loves her he is extremely awkward when it comes to intimacy to the point of my mother being sexually frustrated, seems like asexuality to me tbh. I once went crazy mode (do not judge me I was 14) and checked all his socials and phone and followed him around to see if he was cheating but he's actually surprisingly very faithful), his friends say that he was also disinterested in anyone in college too and my parents are arranged married. And oh my mom has some extremely questionable views, (keep in mind the country I live in is extremely homophobic and being gay was like illegal a few years ago), my mother thinks that essentially all women are capable of feeling attraction towards other women, and says that it's "natural" for them to have romantic feelings about women because our love is "blind", but also says that you have to inevitably marry a man (because SOCIETY y'all), seems like comphet to me , mother. Also her relationships with her friends from college are VERY sus. Then comes by younger brother, he's the "worst" (I'm saying this in a comedic sense) he crossdresses and my mother is supportive, if not even encourages it by complementing him. But also deludes herself by saying that my brother crossdresses because he's into fashion and likes to make clothes. And I'm like 98% gay for women and 2% straight for a very few selected men. I sometime think that maybe if being any other other than stinky heterosexuals was accepted in society my parents might have turned out different and i wouldn't exist
Same!! My parents also sleep in separate rooms, and I think they "love eachother" enough to not look suspicious.