How many months do you think a person needs to actually say they've changed

Some of them people often say "people don't change that fast" what if they do? cant some have the emotional intelligence and deep level of care? Thats an opinion too but ppl act so much like its fact. it doesn't apply to everyone. People vary in emotional intelligence, some ppl struggle with it and it takes them time while others learn quickly through advices and know their wrongs and make it right. It can be a mixed of both. Nobody gets to dictate that "They'll do it again" thats not your end to say mostly. Sorry rant i was so upset with how my friend got shit on for something in 2023. Which is 2 years ago.