Uhumm, how is it for you in your home life? Do your family force you to be straight? I mean, I'm gay in an Islamic Arabic country, and I'm fine living celibate, but my country and my family are pretty lenient about it, compared to Saudi or Iran, so I understand you having to choose being "straight", I'm aware not everyone has the privilege of choos...... reply
Kinda depends on her surroundings.
If she is in a safe environment then ofc i would tell her to do what their heart wants to do. Some countries are not safe for women much less someone sapphic. So in she is in a shitty society, then as much as I hate to say it, she should stay cellibate if possible or comphet. reply
and then there's me who is 'free love but what the everlasting hell do those word mean?'
anyway i searched them up.
1. if she's umm comphetting because it's lethal not to do so... and she has no intention of dying for the causse, then tell her it's okay and just be there for her.
2. if it's for her parents who might die if she's sapphire, person...... reply
