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Eli 8 days
absolutely not. they want to control and isolate you. that's likely been his expectation the whole time you've known him if it's a "family tradition." this shit is more common than you think. "hey babe let's move closer to where my family are. for US" then bam, you have no friends, no family nearby, no work connections, no one to rely on except him......   reply
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Abel✯lied 8 days
Be the first one to break the tradition! Make it easier for all the younger members of the family. Times are changing and they need to get on with the program!   reply
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rize 8 days
now ask that to him, is he willing to give up his culture and identify for you? if he said yes then he should break their tradition to be w you there's a lot of horror stories about losing their identity within the marriage and i know it was hell for them just by listening to it, now imagine yourself 10 years from now? if you want to work it out ......   reply
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Lazy_Potato .☽༊˚ 7 days
guys this was actually just a thought experiment, but i assure you that this is a real phenomena that happens to my ppl all the time, BOTH men and women give up their identity to marry the person they love from this specific ethnicity. since i've never fallen in love nor have i ever been in a relationship- i struggle to understand how they could ju......   2 reply
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Bitch I'm up 8 days
Girl no fuck that man and fuck his family if they won’t accept you for who you are, and he supportive of his family decision of not accepting you for your identity then you guys clearly need to have a talk and sort out your feelings if you guys weren’t together for so long, I would have just said leave him and find someone better but you guys h......   reply
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Onetime 8 days
This is the XXI century. Tell them to sit and spin. Especially if they are english.   reply
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eastabunnyyo 8 days
Consider if you want them as in-laws. Many divorces happen because of people OTHER than your partner. And in many cases the in-laws are the reason. If they are so demanding NOW can you imagine what they'll be like when you're essentially under their control via your husband? If he doesn't even flinch at their suggestions or step up for you, it's ......   reply
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Cute_KittenZ 8 days
Giving up yourself for love??? Then what the heck does your bf even love about you if your about to give up your whole identity??? Is that even love anymore ;_;   reply
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Kamisito 8 days
My hot take on this is that it depends on your boyfriend culture that you reverting to like is a culture you're curious and open to adopt as a lifestyle or do you have some reservations towards it and will you be able to keep some part of your culture to indulge doing from time to time too , if so i think you should do it but at least ask your bf t......   1 reply
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Elle ne parle pas francais 8 days
Adding to what the others have been saying, oppression always starts like this. Now you "just" have to change your name and give up your identity but what's next? Assuming that this is targeted at women, it's really indicative for how this culture views women. You have to fully subjugate yourself to a man and his family. ESPECIALLY since your boyfr......   reply
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