i'm ace but i force myself to be sexual for others benefit and i'm OBSESSED with my ex but he doesn't want to date to work on himself and it's just ughhhh is it even worth it? am i just desperate i'd rather get with another ace
Fellow ace person here. There are, of course, asexual people who have sex and enjoy having sex, but forcing yourself is never okay. It isn’t good for you, and it’s not good for your partner too. As for your ex, it’s not worth it. He’s an ex for a reason. I recommend focusing on yourself for now and waiting for the right person to come along...... reply
cut him out. you're hurting yourself. you can't force anybody to change
the only person you have control over is yourself. he must have his own perspectives for not wanting to be in a relationship, and you should find somebody who you're compatible with
you're simply clinging to the past. think of what'd make you happy long-term and focus on achi...... reply
