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I am not sure to tell anyone about this in rl yet.

My grandma died years ago, and my grandpa likes her a lot and hasn't gotten anyone new.He keeps telling me I'm his favorite out of my siblings (probably because I'm the most Asian-looking one) and that I am his wife reincarnated, that I look exactly like her. (I don't know if it's due to him being drunk; he doesn't often say things like this.) We barely even talk till now.I'm cool with that. But he keeps hugging and kissing me (on the mouth); he even opened his mouth. He told me not to tell anyone and keeps saying when we're alone he has something to tell me.Should I be concerned?

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Doll ^^ 04 03,2025

YES U SHOULDD. This isn't normal bbg idk if ur grandpa has some mental illness but DONT let this slide. TELL SOMEONE TRUSTED, or if u can't, push him away and keep a distance from him. 1 reply

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Local.Meemaw 04 03,2025

Only you know your family dynamic and can guess how they would react to you telling them your concerns about him, so that’s up to you to tell them if you feel safe enough to do so. However what I can tell you is that your concerns are valid do not ever be alone with him I don’t care if he was an amazing normal loving grandpa before grandma’s ...... 1 reply

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Yann 04 03,2025

THIS IS VERY CONCERNING!! bb pls get help from ir parents asap let them know hes beung kike this !! And get FAR AWAY from himm oml Basically hes trying to treat u as the replacement fronur gramnda?? GET AWAY FROM HIMM 2 reply

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hypocrite 04 03,2025

yes be concerned... distance yourself asap 1 reply

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Chanslaptop 04 03,2025

My honest reaction 1 reply

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Flick (: 04 03,2025

Absolutely do not go into a private area with him!! Tell a family member and always ensure they are with you when he’s visiting 1 reply

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Anything 04 03,2025

It not normal sorry that you are going through this like the other comments are saying distance yourself and try to avoid being with him alone at all costs if you trust anyone and you know you can talk about this with them then that better preferably a reliable adult and also do NOT care about what other adults or anyone says because in those case ...... 1 reply

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COCO_CHANEL 04 03,2025

This is long but bear w me. pls distance urself from them. This action is very inappropriate if u can pls tell a trusted adult or anyone u trust abt this, if it hard bc u live in a family were if u tell them abt this they wont believe u or brush it of as a joke (ive had this happen w an uncle) pls try asking anyone or be up front to him and tell ...... 1 reply

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ghostly_moon 04 03,2025

YES, YOU SHOULD. TELL YOUR PARENTS OR AN ADULT YOU TRUST 1 reply

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ode 04 03,2025

YOOOOO so don't ever excuse his weird fucking behavior as he's "just drunk", this man is obviously doing more than just mistaking you as your grandmother (very obvious because he's telling you to keep the "kisses" a secret) , never even try being alone with him, tell your parents if you can please, protect yourself sweetie 1 reply

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