How do ya'll prefer being alone?
Major quesiton cause like i'm a massive overthinker and people pleaser T-T ....seriously how do ya'll prefer being alone? don't you just get frustrated like if i don't socialize i won't have any friends? have any of you been in my situation before? how'd you overcome this whole people pleaser mindset to idgaf mindset?
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sometimes people's past experiences can lead them to feel better alone maybe they find solace in not baving to entertain or act a certain way if they have no one close to them that they feel comfortable with or other times they just like it and its as simple as taking time for yourself may be relaxing you get to do the stuff you like without interruptions
I have but i think what you need to just really fix here is your self worth. You don't need to always socialise to have friends, they will still be friends with you regardless. You don't need to also always please them, you're not a perfect person and people should accept you despite your flaws or stuff because you're still a good person at heart.
I've learnt how to entertain myself, for me it's a skull I picked up, but ngl ik I'm at least somewhat happier with people who get me
I like being alone because I just prefer it, but not all the time, it's kinda lonely but that's just how I prefer it. Though I only socialize to those who seriously wants to be my friend not to those who only became my friend because I have something of use to em. I currently have 2-4 friends but I only socialize to my 1 friend since she really wants to be my friend. It's not frustrating to be alone for me since I could have more privacy whenever my friends aren't with me d:
U start by ghosting them lmao
Srsly tho msg them smthing along the lines of: "im going through a rough patch lately and will be distant for some time till i figure things out myself." Then never contact them ever again lol and see how life goes for u without them around
But since u didnt completely burn bridges, then ur free to come back to them anytime guilt-free yay
I used to be a ppl pleaser too until i realized that the frds i had (even tho they were genuinely nice n considered me to be their precious frd) were taking up so much of my time that I wasn't living for myself anymore. It was fine at 1st bcos it didnt bother me as much. But when i started to find other things i wanted to do but cudnt bcos of frds, thats when it all started to feel suffocating being in contact with them too much. So i ghosted
Also just practice saying no to ppl until ur confident enough to not have to lie abt excuses anymore.
The ultimate goal is to say no with no explanation required! GL
It depends on if you enjoy being alone or with others .
So that mindest depends what you perfer/enjoy.
And I wouldn't call it a mindset rather who you are as a person.
Because I enjoy my own company, I’m not boring