i don't know if i'm aro ace or if I'm just giving up because unconciously I believe I am unloveable and I wanna save myself the heartache when i'm inevitably abandoned by all the things I thought I loved.
i'm aroace and honestly i was relieved when i found out that concept existed bc it meant me not having a crush on anyone growing up was completely normal so idk if you're aroace exactly if you're viewing it like being someone who doesn't want a romantic relationship instead of being someone who's had trouble finding someone they wanted to be in a r...... reply
No way people HERE of all places are saying aro/ace people don’t exist and it’s not a real thing that’s like saying gay people don’t exist be so fr just bc you don’t understand something or can’t relate doesn’t mean it’s not real 2 reply
Hi, an aroace here! Aroace doesn't mean you think you are unloveable, it's rather a self-confidence issue.
Salty The Femboy and Ponk give pretty good answers to your concern, so I don't wanna elaborate further.
Have a nice day! reply
I think your thoughts are stemming from self confidence issues. It’s hard and I’m still learning to love myself too. You got this and don’t worry too much about the what ifs because you’re worth it. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ reply
you can actually still date in the aro spectrum and still have sex in the ace spectrum if i were you i'd do a little more research into why i feel i'm part of that community and the different parts because you could not be attracted to people romantically or sexually or you could be doing it because of self confidence issues self discovery is alway...... reply
The replies made feel sad :(
Is it that hard to accept that some people don't feel sexual and romantic attraction?
Do you think I like being this way? When everything revolves around romantic love in mainstream media?
You don't have to relate and understand everything to accept it 2 reply
