is this a friend problem or na
One of my closest friends has been hooking up with my brother. I’m not sure how far it’s gone and I honestly don’t wanna know. They were friends before I was friends with her, so I feel like I don’t have much of a say in what they do since I came into the picture later. But me and her got closer than her and my brother. I’m pretty chill and a “do what you want, I don’t care” kind of person, so their hooking up didn’t really bother me at first. But recently, it’s been weird. They’ve been sneaking around thinking I don’t know, and sometimes doing stuff when we’re all hanging out in a little group with some other friends. Like, you can do your thing, I don’t care, just not around me.
When she comes over, he’ll sometimes hang out with us and they’ll flirt and stuff, and I’ll just be there. Now I’m wondering, is this an issue? I feel like me and her friendship has this weird thing in it now because we can’t be totally open about everything because of her and my brother. I don’t wanna talk about their thing, but I want to be able to talk about everything with her, and I love hanging out with her. Is this a real friendship problem, should I do anything?
Steal her from your brother there's no other way
(that's a joke, talk to her about it, they're making it weird, no one wants their siblings boinking anywhere near them)
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23 hours
Talk to her. Tell her you know they've got something going on and how you feel about it. You can take things step-by-step after that. Everyone's boundaries are different. Some people will see this as nbd and others will see it as a relationship ender.
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23 hours
Maybe try communicating with them both about ur discomforts, you definitely have some bit of right to feel uncomfortable because of how close you guys have grown even though you came into the picture later. Talk to them abt how you feel n just the stuff in this post, sorry if this kinda seems like some lameish response but I hope it helps and if yo......
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1 days
Honestly, this isn't the best place to look for advice.
Personally, I never feel comfortable being around a couple I know, especially if I'm really close to one of them. I think it's normal to feel uncomfortable. In my case, I also have a friend in a relationship and most of the time I don't want to hear what they do or don't do. I prefer to just ......
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