Do you think liking BL means you like men?

if yes, why do you think that do you need to jerk off to something to enjoy it? if no, I would love to hear your opinion too. I'm so tired of people invalidating my lesbianism my family, my therapist, and even the queer people that are here, everybody tells me that actually I like men I'm just tired. basically I want to fight, tell me why do you think I like men?