internalized bigotry

I've grown up in a conservative household, and that has influenced me to some extent. I know logically that there is nothing wrong with men acting feminine. But I still feel an uncomfortable feeling around effeminate men and trans people that don't pass. If anything, I feel guilty, because they would feel awful if someone thought of them that way. Even though I know there isn't anything wrong with it, I can't shake this feeling. I wanted to ask how I could get over it.