I use this forum to rant wayyy too much but I have no one else to vent to so yeah I was supposed to get a tattoo done tmrw and my best friend was planning on tagging along. we'd been planning this for a few days and were both excited. then today I suddenly got a call at midnight saying she couldn't come with me because she had to go on a date with her bf (who used to be my ex situationship btw). She told me to change the timings or shift the tattoo sesh to another day but I couldn't because they literally had to squeeze me into their schedule and I'd alr told my mom several lies that only worked for that specific time. I told her to go on the date and that it was fine, I could just go with someone else. It really sucks because I thought she valued our friendship more than some guy. Sorry for the consistent rants, literally nothing in my life is going right and I just need to let it all out somewhere
I assume you're young? I feel like this is common for teens and young adults. My best friend did this a lot when we were young. It's like she would stop existing whenever she got a boyfriend. We stopped being friends for about 6 months but made up. I learned to not let it bother me and made and fostered new relationships. Now that we are old she ha...... reply
so sorry for u but that fr isnt your friend no friend would do that and i hope you find better company than someone who will put a man over their friends 1 reply
Yk what u feel is totally valid and u might be a little jealous but in a valid way. You should talk abt this with ur friend, most often than not its more than what you see. If she actually valued you she will make more plans with you and apologise. I get to feel like that too when my friends used to leave me for their Bfs but i understood bec they ...... reply
