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don't act on it, at all. Try to distance yourself a little bit from them, not completely as they are a good friend but just enough to where you can work on your feelings maybe? And if possible seeing a counselor/therapist may be a good thing to do too. Your not a bad person for having these feelings, it happens when you get close to people. Doesn't......   reply
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Honestly bro? You're not a pedophile. But you definitely will be if you try to pursue feelings towards someone who is a minor. Your best bet is to not do anything until they're of legal age, considering you've been of legal age for almost 2 years now. There is already a distance in your mentality simply because of the environment people in your (an......   reply
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imo theres not much wrong with your age gap? youre turning 20 next month which means you are, still, a teenager - not for much longer, yes, but youre still young yourself. you met 2 years ago, meaning you were 14 and 17, right? thats normal; thats a perfectly normal age gap. its not as if youre in your 20's and met someone underage; you met a teena......   5 reply
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Don’t act on it. They deserve Someone their age. It is not healthy. Maybe once they’re 20. You have different needs in life than they do. They’re worrying about school and you’re worrying about work. You will get in the way of their life decisions. Instead of thinking about themselves they will think about how they should change their futur......   reply
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You shouldn't get into a relationship with them. They are still in high school, while you are nearing 20. It's not abnormal of you to develop feelings for someone who has helped you through a dark time in your life, especially considering you've known each other for 3 years. You're not a pedophile for liking them and don't let anyone bully you into......   2 reply
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You eat your feelings. This is an incredibly important time for a teenager. Teenagers will do stupid shit like turning down once in a lifetime opportunities for love. You do not want to influence their decisions in any way. I don't care how agonizing it is for you, as the adult, you better stfu and eat your feelings.   2 reply
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sorry off topic but trying to read this gave me an aneurysm   2 reply
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From what everyone is saying I personally don't believe you should distance yourself especially if you two are good friends. But I do recommend you to not let the feelings progress. And let time do its thing, I'm not sure if what I'm going to say will be frowned upon but, just waiting till they're of age to then talk about your feelings would be be......   reply
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?? It’s only a 2-3 year age difference and yall are still both teenagers. I know a couple with similar ages as yours and they doing fine. You aren’t a pedochill out this isn’t as weird as u think it is   1 reply
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I'm pretty sure you are aware how (badly) a minor would be affected by an adult pursuing them. As long as you dont act on your feelings, then it should be fine. People dont choose who they are attracted to or who they fall in love with, and I assume its the same for pedophiles. But the difference is that acting on it would actually be harmful. If y......   1 reply
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