I love my people alot, but why are there people who say "boy who cried wolf" on ppl who keep attempting? it's just i wanna understand why that cus they just survive like is their attempt suddenly fake? or is simply just so suicidal. I know it can be draining like i dealt with people like that but im not gonna say "i don't care anymore" because i still do care if my friend is gonna die or not but alot of ppl ik have said that towards someone. Im not talking attention seekers, im talking about ppl who has alot of genuine problems. Just it feels so cruel to say "i lost sympathy and care fo kor you" when that friend kinda ig just wants to ask for your help.
Most of these people survive bec they regret things halfway thru and call 911 or wtv and i got just thinking this from this post - https://www.mangago.me/thing/about/753715/
As someone who's been at both ends the answer is simple, they're exhausted. Exhausted of having to carry someone else's burden, exhausted of always having to walk on thin ice, exhausted of feeling like it's their responsibility to keep their friend alive. It often happens when the other side keeps trying to help only to be constantly shut down then...... 2 reply
It's traumatizing. Some people can only handle the worry-fear-grief combo once or a couple times before they mentally check out. Getting told repeatedly your friend/person attempted or is planning or etc is like getting really quickly stabbed until you notice that you're also getting hurt. And it's not like it's on purpose, but it is damaging and a...... 1 reply
Suicide can be viewed as a profoundly self-centered act, not merely in the sense that it inflicts pain on others, but because it often represents the final decision of someone who has fought valiantly for their life. This choice indicates a prioritization of their desire to end their suffering over the emotional impact on family and friends. As you...... 1 reply
