tbh i think im in love for the first time for real. and im old. like 20yo old…. (ab to be 21)

its scary. its overwhelming, especially when youve never felt something like it before.

the way i think of it, what kept me in love with him is the genuine love he always gave back. he was always so patient and gentle and understanding even if i didnt want to date him at first.

the overthinking thing can either be a symptom if love or anxiety. it depends on how you approach dating to begin with or your prior experiences. what i mean to say is, if they are constantly making you second guess what should be something obvious and dont put in effort to assure you, they’re probably either confused themselves or not interested.

you are the only constant variable in your own life, remember that. you cant change how other people feel but you can change how you communicate your thoughts and feelings to others, and than in of itself can do wonders for your self esteem and others’ impression of you.

if you think the way they treat you is special but fear u might be overthinking it, ask a friend (preferably one who wont feed into any delusions ) sometimes you just need to be outside yourself and take a breather from the state of mind love puts you in.

best of luck to you and this person. wishing all the best <3
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