I know im chronically online asf and i share every thought and my life in this site making it seem like im an whore begging for the attention of the mangago users but im kinda tired cus i have tons of irl friends, i message them and try to have convo with them and they leave my ass on read for few hours... are these people even my friends atp cus tbh i just feel like im the only one trying to be friends. I want to tell my problems to them and it's so hard to do things alone but i can't even depend on them and it's so silly of me having to vent abt things to my online friends. I don't want them to be tired of dealing with my ass. I feel like none of my irl friends care to talk to me atleast once for a few hours or listen to me rant.
i know they're not therapist or wtv and im not saying they should be but ya know? i want irl friends i could talk abt my problems to. I want to feel abit atleast cared for and loved by someone like how i do for them.
Do they leave you on read often? I'm not trying to justify their actions but what if they were busy with something?? If this is something that happens almost all the time y don't u ask them about it face to face and tell them how bad you feel when they do this. Like you said it's really painfull when they don't put in as much as effort as you, so i...... reply
It depends?
What you're looking for is a really close friend, but in reality they might not think of you as that friend. They might think of you as that person I talk to sometimes and it's fun to hang out. Which is where most friends are at.
Tbh leaving someone on read for a few hours might just be them trying to avoid talking about anything seri...... reply