im in a dilemma
basically. it was my friends birthday on wednesday, lets call her nonk and i had gotten her a gift, with another gift on the way. my birthday was yesterday, she sent my happy birthday to me on messages and i was all like ahh thanks.
THE THING IS SHE HASNT GOTTEN ME A GIFT.
now i know i seem eager but weve been friends depending on each other for a few years now and today i gave her the other gift. i nonchalantly bought up like blablabla and stuff like oh yeah i wont gift someone who doesnt give me gift (bc who does hello im saving money) dont get me wrong, i LOVE this girl (platonically yeah) and i just need someone to ease my mind that shes maybe still preparing a gift because i spent time and thought into hers and to not receive anything back from the one person that knows all about me and we hang out litch every day?? it hurts a bit.
if i were to ask, how should i even bring it up?? trust me, she isnt those bitchy girls at all, shes the sweetest (ish..) girl ever and we depend on each other a lot, theres never a moment we arnt together during break + lunch and lessons we have together, we never need to hide each other personality because we are both equally abnormal and we gossip n allattt without a care in the world #girlhood
im honestly tweaking someone help
is it so difficult to send a simple 'so where is my gift?' text? that's your friend, not your mortal enemy.
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13 01,2025