im in a dilemma
basically. it was my friends birthday on wednesday, lets call her nonk and i had gotten her a gift, with another gift on the way. my birthday was yesterday, she sent my happy birthday to me on messages and i was all like ahh thanks.
THE THING IS SHE HASNT GOTTEN ME A GIFT.
now i know i seem eager but weve been friends depending on each other for a few years now and today i gave her the other gift. i nonchalantly bought up like blablabla and stuff like oh yeah i wont gift someone who doesnt give me gift (bc who does hello im saving money) dont get me wrong, i LOVE this girl (platonically yeah) and i just need someone to ease my mind that shes maybe still preparing a gift because i spent time and thought into hers and to not receive anything back from the one person that knows all about me and we hang out litch every day?? it hurts a bit.
if i were to ask, how should i even bring it up?? trust me, she isnt those bitchy girls at all, shes the sweetest (ish..) girl ever and we depend on each other a lot, theres never a moment we arnt together during break + lunch and lessons we have together, we never need to hide each other personality because we are both equally abnormal and we gossip n allattt without a care in the world #girlhood
im honestly tweaking someone help
is it so difficult to send a simple 'so where is my gift?' text? that's your friend, not your mortal enemy.
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13 01,2025
Hiii, I literally dealt with the same thing before. I think you should ask her if she liked your gift first/ or if she got around to using it, and see how she responds. If she reacts positively, ask the fated question, I mean here is how I think it’ll go.
You know how it was my birthday last week lol?
Oh yea, lolol, did u do anything special?
Ju......
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13 01,2025
i believe it's best to be straightforward. some ppl won't take the hint unless you say it to their face yk? also you've been friends for many years now, telling her that you're sad that she didn't give you a gift won't make you combust spontaneously. your ego might say that you needn't stoop low like that...it might say that you deserve better... b......
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13 01,2025
I'm not a girl but. send her this "gurl where is my gift" it's only gonna be a big deal if she suddenly makes it big. honestly if she's still preparing the gift she should have told you "babe sorry the gift's gon be late", it's just common sense.
if there is no gift idk that's not normal. like if she's low on money she could have gotten you somethi......
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13 01,2025
