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I understand your point and I used to think the same thing. But you're going to realize just how much a person changes after they reach their mid twenties. If a 30 year old goes out with a 35 year old, it's not a big deal. But the difference between a 20 year old and a 25 year old is way too much to ignore. I'm not saying everyone with a younger pa......   1 reply
07 01,2025
As a 20 yr old myself I’m gna b honest, dating a 19 yr old or an 18 ur old is SO different, I have friends in college who although r only a year younger than me and very mature still very much have a completely different mindset from me and my peers, u don’t realize how big of a difference u go thru until u actually look back. I definitely do n......   1 reply
07 01,2025
I think both extremes are kinda weird tbh ("all age gap relationships are gross" vs "all age gaps relationships are fine"). I do think that, in general, age gaps matter less later in life because you're more likely to have closer levels of maturity, you're more likely to be financially independent and you're more likely to be in similar stages in ......   reply
07 01,2025
To be honest, I'm almost 30 yo and in some ways I feel that age gap with a 20 yo to mid 25 or 26 yo person I think a person in its twenties grows and matures a lot in those years and you can feel the gap even if you're just a few years apart.   2 reply
07 01,2025
okay prefacing this by clarifying that i'm around your age but i think the experience makes a huge difference in like. maturity, still? the life experience is still important to develop the skills to be independent as an adult. i agree that relationships within the age boundaries you describe aren't inherently predatory but like the age of early ad......   1 reply
07 01,2025
If a 20 and 25 can have a consenting relationship and both of them have a say in the relationship who am I to judge. I personally don't think 5yr age gap is bad after twenties and people always change and mature. 25 know more about the world than 20. 30 has more experience thana 25, can be said the same about 30,35 and 35,40. I think that if both p......   1 reply
07 01,2025
I just saw that my post cut off at the bottom Sorry if it’s confusing at the end, it cut out what I was saying which sucks. Edit: Again, like I said, I understand people’s arguments with maturity and people changing a lot. But everyone changes throughout the years. 30 is very different from 40. Age also isn’t always an indicator of maturi......   1 reply
07 01,2025
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