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My two cents on this topic is that we need to gatekeep this stuff from westerners cuz they'll complain about anything at this point   4 reply
06 01,2025
ninamarie 06 01,2025
“Its because the west is more open or more prone to activism” Ok white savior, we see you. LGBTQ+ communities ARE extremely active thank you very much. Asian Queers are more than capable of speaking for themselves, so I really really don’t see why white queers are all at front and center acting like this is the biggest challenge that we’re......   2 reply
06 01,2025
Kloky 06 01,2025
It is fetishism, the same way lesbian porn is. A lot of fujoshis sexualize these relationships to the point of dehumanization i mean look at eastern asia where this content is made, they have serious lgbtq rights issues, fujoshis will happily jerk of to a stereotypes (becuse that what it mostly is) and then not lift a finger to help the lgbtq or ev......   3 reply
06 01,2025
Lexi
06 01,2025
The thing about this is, it’s known that most women who read BL read it for a few different reasons. I saw some paper/article a few years ago on it, and I remember these were reasons: 1.) because they’re attracted to men, in general (the muscles and physicality, etc). Number one seems simple enough and makes sense. Someone else said it best her......   5 reply
06 01,2025
CMYep
06 01,2025
I'm so damn tired of people just spouting James Somerton rhetoric. Fucking hell.   2 reply
06 01,2025
Honestly, I'm an avid BL reader, and a female at that. While yes, I think some fetishization exist, not all BL have it. We actually have a very clear distinguishing sub-genres to support this. Shounen-ai, this is a BL that has no smut whatsoever and tends to lead from a romantic, and plot driven point. Then we have Yaoi, which is I guess the porn s......   1 reply
06 01,2025
Who is reading Asian bl and fetishizing white queer men. Yall ain't got no taste. But on serious note. Asian countries just arent built to have the luxury to complain about fetishization on queer men when queer men itself aren't even an accepted concept, ya know? Like of course no Asian queer gonna be blasting about fetishization, they're in the ......   1 reply
06 01,2025
Dr. Killgood
06 01,2025
Its true that fetishization exists, but some people make it seem like its some huge problem. A lot of these types of people hating on BL are also being lowkey racist. Alice Oseman for example prides herself in being the author of a mlm story without sex in it, while saying that BL is fetishizing gay men. "Its not appropriate, because they are teena......   1 reply
06 01,2025
xylophone
07 01,2025
my issue with this discussion is that they act as if BL media is the only media that gets highlighted amongst women. it’s one of those sub-genres that is included in the romance book space. women read romance & queer love is included in that. i have yet to see these people present a situation where women are fetishizing & harassing gay men just b......   3 reply
07 01,2025
uwuar
06 01,2025
Actually I think bl drama fans are the worst. Cus tell me why some of them have social media accounts full of boys kissing. I saw one of them share a vid of a underageboy with his gr00mer and they saw 0 problem with it. Like yes that is fetishism.   2 reply
06 01,2025
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