Is large age gap okay if the younger person pursues the older person?

Those are two different mental maturity levels. Party A could be starting to still be in high school. Party B could be ending college to trying to pay off a mortgage When I was in high school I used to sometimes romanticize having an older boyfriend who was 20. Someone older and wiser and could take care of me. It seemed romantic at the time but ......   reply

When you are thinking about age gaps you have to think about maximum minimum and where they would be in an age sense as well. When you think about a freshman in high school and a senior in high school. At minimum that freshman could be 14 and at max the senior could be 18. When you think about this in the fact that they have both entered a new ph......   reply

Outside of fiction at those ages, no 17 and 20 is the least objectionable there but the 20 year old should still know better than to break the law Early 20s is still learning how to be an adult but still should know better than to break the law 15 year old is way too young to have thought about the long term for a decent time and in proper depth ......   reply

I TOLD YOU TO GIVE ME CREDIT WDYM “just a question i thought of”, girl put some credit to my name smh and also it’s obviously not ok but there’s so many people I like that are so much older than me and it makes me wanna cry cause even though I have no chance of getting with them, if I did, they would be pedos and that’s so sad cause I jus......   2 reply

Girl 15 and 17 is that even a question come on bro they’re both teenagers in high school that’s perfectly fine   reply

Not ok   reply

if party A is a minor then no. in real life i think even being 19-20 is a little iffy but i wouldn't say no as a hard rule because some people have their heads screwed on well. this is bc the differences in maturity and social position are what matter more than just the Literal Numerical Age Difference between them: large age gap relationships (tha......   1 reply

i believe theres nuance to everything but if you're the adult in the situation it's your responsibility to establish boundaries, young people are foolish and irrational. there's no "he/she asked for it" when nothing would have happened if you turned down their feelings   reply